Who Taught You About Money?


Hi Reader,

Let’s talk about money—but not the way we usually do.

Not budgets.
Not spreadsheets.
Not “just earn more.”

Let’s talk about where your money beliefs came from

Because whether we realize it or not…

Most of us are making financial decisions based on:

  • What we saw growing up
  • What we were told was “safe”
  • What felt available—or unavailable—to us

And those patterns run deep

It can look like:

  • Staying financially dependent longer than you want to
  • Avoiding risk, even when you’re ready
  • Feeling anxious about money—even when you’re earning more

Not because you’re bad with money.

But because your story is still shaping your strategy.

Here’s the shift

Financial freedom is not just about numbers.

It’s about awareness.

Awareness of:

  • What you were taught
  • What you internalized
  • What you’re ready to change

And yes—you can change it

You can:

  • Build new financial habits
  • Redefine what security looks like
  • Make decisions from intention—not fear

But it starts with asking:

“Where did I learn this—and is it still serving me?”

Serving you,
'Tine 🖤✨

P.S. If you want to explore this deeper, I had a powerful conversation with Estelle Gibson about financial dependency, money mindset, and building true financial freedom.

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'Tine Zekis | Founder & CEO, Getting Black Women Paid

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