It’s Not Just You


Hi Reader,

Let’s start here:

The gap is real

Black women earn a fraction of what others earn—and that reality shows up in more ways than just a paycheck.

But here’s what’s important to understand:

It’s not always obvious

Bias doesn’t always look like:

  • Someone saying “no” directly
  • A clearly unfair policy
  • A moment you can point to

Sometimes it looks like:

  • Being overlooked for opportunities
  • Being praised but not promoted
  • Being expected to do more—with less recognition

And over time, that adds up

It impacts:

  • Your income
  • Your confidence
  • Your career trajectory

So what can you do?

You may not be able to control the system.

But you can control how you move within it.

That can look like:

  • Advocating for your work (even when it feels uncomfortable)
  • Setting boundaries around what you will—and won’t—take on
  • Being intentional about where you stay and where you grow

One important reminder

If you’ve ever felt overlooked, underpaid, or undervalued—

It’s not a personal failure.

It’s a pattern.

And recognizing that is part of reclaiming your power.

With you,
’Tine 🖤✨

P.S. If you want to go deeper into this conversation, I sat down with Dr. Tishayla Williams to talk about the wage gap, workplace bias, and what real accountability should look like.

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'Tine Zekis | Founder & CEO, Getting Black Women Paid

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