Let 2026 be the year you stop pushing through


Hey Reader,

It’s been a little while since I landed in your inbox. December brought a wave of transitions, reflection, and—if I’m being honest—deep exhaustion. So I took a step back.

Not because I didn’t have anything to say—but because I needed a moment to listen to myself. To grieve, to breathe, and to gather what I’ll need for what’s next.

I won’t get into all of it right now—but I will say this: I’m learning to give myself more grace than ever before. To slow down, be honest about what I need, and build a life and business that actually supports the woman I’m becoming.

If you’ve been feeling the pressure to sprint into 2026 with vision boards, resolutions, and “new year, new you” energy, here’s your gentle reminder:

You don’t have to perform your progress.

There’s power in moving at your own pace. There’s wisdom in rest. And there’s beauty in choosing alignment over achievement.

As we step into 2026 together, here’s a question I’m holding close. Maybe it’ll resonate with you too:

What would it look like to grow from a place of joy instead of exhaustion?

I’m so grateful you’re here. I’ve got a lot to share with you in the weeks ahead—especially as I prepare to step onto the TEDx stage next month (!!). But for now, I just want to say: I see you. I honor your pace. And I’m wishing you softness and strength in the year ahead.

Warmly,
’Tine

'Tine Zekis | Founder & CEO, Getting Black Women Paid

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